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What is Life? “Understanding Towards Life”

Any human being should take an interest in what you are living for. The biggest problem nowadays in the world of human beings, which can be seen, is that most human beings do not try to know why they are living and what they should have to live for in their lives. We should see this is the result that human beings have abandoned themselves by greed and ignorance for a long time. Our life and the result of our life that we wish for is being ignored by darkness and unhappiness.

Is life really the question which nobody can know? Some people say that life is a never ending task and some people say that life is the secret which only god knows. We do not understand the fact why do we have to live by forgetting the pleasure of life which is in ourselves and why do we have to live our life by throwing away the value of life. We should understand the tremendous crisis of the world of human beings from the deteriorating or loss of the value of view of life and we should feel fear of the fact that these things prevail in our surroundings already. As long as religions do not know what life is and universities are the authorities of promoting position it is bound to be difficult for anyone to teach the truth of life and people who have already abandoned themselves will not want things in truth to be revealed.

The duty of his era is how do we know about life and to choose what we have to live for. The most important thing for you to consider is to love yourself and to create a good self from you. The reason why I am talking about these things is because there is a principle in the world and all the answers are in the principle. Life is the whole process which exists from birth to death and we have the result in us through what happened in ourselves. When we know life we can see the real value of life and when we know life the real love can come out of ourselves. Unless the world of human beings cannot open their eyes to life the value of life will disappear forever. When your life cannot bless yourself the life is not yours anymore.

The blessing for human beings is the ability that human beings can have and the fact that they cannot use their ability that they have for themselves means they lost themselves by ignorance. Now we should check about this problem. We should know what we know and what we are doing. All truth is appearing through the result. When the question is wrong the result comes out wrong and only someone who understands the question can make a good result.

The most important problem that the world of human beings should know is how to accept our life and how to serve ourselves. The reason why Enlightenment has been emphasized in the world of human beings is that we have this kind of question in ourselves. The reason why we cannot perceive “what is” even though we see it is because we could not open our eyes to the truth and we have not given a good teaching to ourselves. When falsehood becomes a good virtue and the weapon of solving all the problems nobody will be able to protect the destruction of the world of human beings.

Enlightenment is opening eyes to “what is” and the way to accept blessing and becoming further away from evil. In order to obtain Enlightenment in our world we need to understand life and we have to have a wish. If there is anyone who is willing to learn about life and to reveal the value of life to people then that will bring a bigger blessing than anything else.

Anyone who has courage come here! As long as your life does not change then problems in you will not change forever and your life will never change. In order for the world of human beings to solve ignorance we have to learn things in life and when we have made ourselves open our eyes to see ourselves we can eventually keep ourselves from greed and falsehood. Life means the process from birth to death and the teaching of life will become the best teaching for us.

The reason why the teaching of life is not passed down until now is because nobody could reveal the truth in the world because of the group of evils and also the teaching has disappeared which was passing down by the deterioration of life. Once again knowing life will make you obtain never-ending blessing for yourself and living without knowing life will become the biggest ignorance that you have ignored yourself. Things of the world can make existing things disappear and nonexistent things to appear by connection.

Life is an opportunity to choose which has been given to you and your life and your future can change through things in life. No matter what anyone says if you live your life without knowing life then you will deceive yourself.

Life is precious to anyone. However, ultimately few people lead their life with the correct understanding of life. Why do people live in the state of being unaware of life? It is because there hasn’t been anyone who teaches about life or anyone who wants to learn about it either in this period.

Life can make anything happen to you. What exists in life produces your endless future. That is to say, life is the way to eternal you. Through your life, you can be born as the best human who you want or as the worst human who you never want. Seen from all these facts, there is nothing more important than knowing life in terms of the survival of a human being. In other words, life without understanding itself is the same thing as is abandoned.

Then, when it comes to saving you what is the most significant object to be saved? It is you yourself. You can find the same words in the bible. “Nobody can reach the heaven through anyone else rather than the self.” It was the explanation of Jesus that what exist in you would lead you to the heaven.

Consciousness derives from what exists inside you and it comes from specific cause and effect, the karma or the virtue you have built. For example, there was a TV show that someone had made a big fortune by growing up medicinal herbs such as a wild ginseng and so forth in the mountain where the herbs doesn’t grow naturally. It was possible because he studied about what exists, especially about the methods of cultivation and finally became to have the full understandings of them. His knowledge and ability made it possible for him to cultivate the herbs. Nobody can guarantee that trees not taken care of will bear good fruits. Expecting good results of life while you are living without being aware of the meaning of life is the same as waiting for a good harvest from trees you have never looked after. Being unaware of how to live is the exactly same thing as doing something very bad to you.

Unstable society is up to people’s life filled with ignorance. If you realize that what you do will exist inside of you as well as affect you endlessly you cannot take any reckless actions. Realistically, since you don’t realize it, you are to take any kinds of careless actions. This makes you change for the worse and causes wrong things in the world as well. Living in the state of being unaware that what results things you have will create and what effects they will have on you, brings about nothing but mistakes.

In the meantime, it is not so easy to know life according to people. It is because people have the uniqueness of their own. There is a feature that drives you and on the basis of the feature, you see, react, understand, and accept an object. It is the very origin of destiny. Since people have different origins of destiny respectively, they have different understandings of the same object.

Then, how is the origin of destiny created? Just as a physical body grows up by food, especially by the energy of the food, consciousness is brought up by what has existed in the lord of the consciousness. What you hear, see, and experience accumulates over and over again inside you to make the growth of spirit. If something wrong is involved in this process the consciousness which is wrong will be made and subsequently a bad origin of the consciousness will be formed. So is a good origin of the consciousness. This kind of relationship can be observed in nature. Conclusively, it can be explained that it appears by the formula, the law, the truth, the promise, etc. By the way, what is the biggest reason why people don’t know these precious things? It is because of falsehood. This unawareness indicates that falsehood has covered truth over.

A famous Chinese scholar said in the past. “If I am enlightened about Do (the way of the world) in the morning it doesn’t matter whether or not I die in the evening.” What is Do, then? Do (the way of the world) means the law of cause and effect of how what exists in the world appears and changes. It is as important to be enlightened to perceive what exists as it is and how it could come into being as he said that he could die in the evening only if he had become aware of what exists.

Knowing life is the way to understand the world. If you recognize life correctly you can understand the world correctly. Knowing the world is the same as obtaining the world. In the same way, knowing life is the way to gain oneself. That is to say, knowing life is the way to peace, happiness, eternal life, resurrection and the heaven. Teaching about life has as important meaning as that.

Neglecting life or having no regard for it is giving up your whole future. In the state of abandoning future, how can you want to be happy and live well? If a person made a big fortune by doing something wrong with ignorant thoughts the fortune would give you a lot of troubles. Due to the fortune, all sorts of disputes and unhappiness can appear endlessly. Anyone including you can meet these happenings in case that you bear bad thoughts from the fear of hunger in a short run without observing what exists.

Although life is really hard and difficult why should you bear and overcome it? It is because the way of your whole future is formulated during the process of life. If you commit suicide because of the difficulties of life there is no future. Even though you are born again you will become much weaker and repeat the same things. These are typical examples you experience due to ignorance of life.

Crops grow up under the influences of ground and environment and as a result, bear fruits. So does a soul. So does consciousness. Consciousness can be active vivaciously or make the better self by knowledge, Enlightenment, and the influence of environment. And although it cannot be active very much, unless it does such a wrong thing that harm itself it might become able to change for the better naturally.

If a certain amount of oil is poured into the ground where crops grow up very well the ground will burn out and after all have terrible effects on the crops. If you accept things or relationships which may damage or affect badly you during a certain process, as crops do, consciousness can be withered or ruined.

Learning the way of life, i.e. how you lead your life is the project of your life. Unless someone teaches you how to achieve it you should do it for yourself. However, people don’t even try to recognize what the project is like and to carry it out. This is the biggest problem people in this era have.

In any circumstances, you must not look to any particular objects for the better change in you or to some good effects happening to you. If you could obtain unexpected and incomprehensible profits by serving gods, the happening will cause much bigger loss. It is because offering nothing but prayer will prevent you from learning what you have to do and enlightening yourself about what exists and finally only give you ignorance. The ignorance will perish you. It is irrational to suppose that only objects like gods can make people change for the better or for the worse. It is ultimately rare in human history that gods help people be born again, go to the heaven, and enlighten themselves. The evidences have never been acquired yet.

What you must think the most important and must not forget is that what you do becomes the causes of all the results inside you. Also, you have to observe carefully what exist all the time and have to know what kinds of results your behavior makes.

To know life is to know everything. It couldn’t be better if you know how you should live. You will be able to work hard and think about what isn’t harmful to yourself. If so, you will live well.

In the world like today approaching the end, it is considered natural for people to live with life neglected. Knowing life cannot only be blessing but also be agony to those whose willpower is weak.

Attachment becomes obstacles in life or darkness in life or makes you ignorant. It doesn’t mean that you should not love your children, siblings, and parents. You can love them but you must never have attachment to them. Then, what is attachment and what is love? Attachment makes you long for things unconditionally. Attachment originates from desire. Love starts with blessing. What makes things or people change for the better is blessing and what makes them change for the worse is attachment. People don’t distinguish attachment from blessing. They misunderstand attachment as love, or love as attachment and take actions.

The attachment makes, for example, you think your son “MY” son and your daughter “MY” daughter. You are not aware, however, that the attachment makes your children and siblings worse. Children are they, themselves and not you, yourself. If you have good thoughts and good will you should practice them first for yourself. And then you can teach them to your children. It is wrong that you don’t teach your children in that way and only look to them to do what you want. If you teach them they will do what you want naturally. You only want them to do things without teaching them. It is the same as wanting them to do something impossible.

The biggest love is teaching. Why do you send children to school? Don’t you send them to school to make them be taught by other people about what you cannot teach for yourself? Sending to school is love. Teaching children originates from the intention that you help them acquire blessing for themselves through learning.

If you consider these things useless there will not be any hope in the world where you live. Hope is the very thing you make and grow up. It is really rare that what you have never made and grown up happens in your surroundings. In order to understand these things, you need Enlightenment and learning. Especially, what is considered the most important during the process of learning is life. If you don’t know life it is certain that you can never learn love.

Even though you don’t study and learn at all in school, if you can learn about life properly you can live superbly. However much and high you have scholastic abilities, if you don’t know about life how can you lead your life? Therefore, you must always think life precious and must hold the confidence that you lead your life well and make it more brilliant and bless it through endless future.

Man and GOD: “The Forgotten Promise”

It is to man that I wish to address myself today. 

Man has forgotten the eternity and the hereafter but of course the impermanent life has veiled and misguided him with luxurious, coziness and comforts. Man is always mortal and must have to die one day. Nothing, he will take except his good deeds that certainly will help him in the life hereafter. Yet, he knows everything; he has read, understood and discovered the whole universe still not able to recognize the truth. He has discovered the moon, the galaxies, the sun, the space and the entire universe – He believes he has to leave this temporary life. Meanwhile, he has fallen into the deep and dark ditches of ignorance, where he has lost his consciousness and all the time is in intoxication of the world. Ego and man’s materialistic desires have killed thousands of innocents. He chases behind money, wishes for expensive cars and dances into the shameless bars. He has forgotten and has become merchants of women. His feelings have become worse than of dogs. Innocents are abducted, rapped and then killed and left in the deserted places and roads.

Man has become busy with the temptation and impulse of world. Lust and power have trapped the man. They abuse their parents, leave their homes if parents taunt. They use expensive mobiles and go for dates and the five stars hotels. Scientific age has invented nuclear bombs, atom bombs, missiles, guns, rifles and innocent souls are terrified to see the cruel actions of humankind, they weep to look bloody and wars.

First World War and Second World War have left bloody sufferings for souls. Scientific inventions are just for desires of body. The television, mobiles, air conditions, cars, computers etc and everyman is entangled into these. In the reality he has forgotten and lost himself for the worldly desires. Man of this world of scientific age is strayed. They are actually not given the lessons of the love, peace and spirituality but are given materialistic desires. Man is all the time busy with needs and wishes of the world he gets no time for the remembrance of GOD and has forgotten the true path of his Lord.

Prophet Muhammad S.A.W.W said: “Be in the world as if you were a stranger.” One can know from his hadith and should not get familiar and closer with world. Man is crippled, but be far away from the world.

As we see – the suicide-blasting has been common in Pakistan. People are killed as the ants are flown by water. Guns and dynamites have been a game for the people they have forgotten the real way of life. they kill, beat, abuse, misbehave and mistreat each others. No name of peace and harmony. It has become worse than the hell. Blood sheds everywhere morality of women is lost. Calamities of ALLAH are falling down over the chest of earth. No life is safe. People are killed just for the sake of money and honor. Alas! How fool the man is! He is chasing behind mortal body and world. Scientific age has been crazed for the people. Everyone has become blind to face the actuality. People have forgotten the ultimate aim of the man’s soul. Soul of man suffers a lot but none feels its panics and it mourns for the love and peace.

The “FEELINGS”

FEELINGS In contrast to the times, when people like to open up, and share their feelings with others, there are times when people prefer to hide their feelings and keep others from knowing how they really feel, for rather moral or personal reasons, such as: not wanting to hurt others, being uncomfortable with expressing themselves, and not wanting other people feeling sorry for them, when viewing or being aware of their emotional state.

One of the biggest reasons is that people are often afraid of the consequences. They don’t want to be vulnerable, and prefer not sharing their intimate details about one self with others. Almost everyone experience feelings of being hurt, humiliated, threatened, angry, sad or used, at some point of their lives. When people prefer not to express themselves, they put on a fake smile, and hide their true feeling, when sense that they are being viewed. Often people start having tendency to hide their feelings, when it comes to concern of other people’s feelings.

Obviously, in order for people to be liked, and bring out a good impression, they will want to avoid the state of hurting others, and also prevent any unpleasant situations. Almost everyone has been in situations, when they were invited for a dinner by their friends or relatives. People usually tend to prefer food that is familiar rather than exotic; and even if the food that the relative or a friend prepared, did not seem very tasty, people would not usually admit it, but instead in order not to hurt the person’s feelings, people would want to be polite, thank the person, and tell that the dinner was wonderful, even though that is not how they really felt about it. Everybody knows that being disrespectful or discriminating towards another, could hurt person’s feeling in a great way. People constantly see new faces, and meet new people, but not everybody may seem to be attractive, or interesting.

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“SIMPLICITY” is the Best!

“Beauty of style and harmony and grace and good rhythm depend on simplicity.”

~ Plato

Simplicity is a great virtue which one can observe in life. We are rightly advised by the wise elders to believe in simple living and high thinking. We should observe simplicity in our food habits. We should take simple but nourishing food. If we are children, we should take milk, butter, bread, vegetables, curd, cheese and fruits.

Simplicity is the ultimate the form of sophistication.”

~Leonardo Da Vinci

We should avoid fast foods. If we are grown ups, we should take less fat and salt, but we should take vegetables and fruits in abundance. In all cases fast food, fried items, soft drink and alcoholic drinks should be avoided. We should not smoke at any cost. We should also observe simplicity in our clothes. We should not wear very tight clothes which make the movement of our limbs difficult.

“Nothing is more simple than greatness; indeed, to be simple is to be great.”

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

We should observe simplicity in our speech and manners. We should be sweet, polite and humble in our talk. We should not boast, nor should we try to bully others. We should never lose our temper under any circumstances. We should be honest and straightforward in our dealings.

“There is no greatness where there is not simplicity, goodness, and truth.”

~ Leo Tolstoy

We must have a simple life-style. We need not run after fashions. We should not spend more than our means. Our house should be built in a simple, cute way. We need not have very expensive gadgets in our houses except. Those which are essential for leading a comfortable tension-free life.

“Knowledge is a process of piling up facts; wisdom lies in their simplification.”

~ Martin H. Fischer

Simplicity means centering in on that which is important and letting go of the rest. It can mean living with few possessions and entanglements, but more broadly it is an attitude, an approach to life.

“The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak.”

~ Hans Hofmann

Simplicity allows us to consume less. It differentiates needs from wants and places a priority on the needs of others over our own wants. It also allows us to accomplish more of what really matters. When we approach a task or conversation with an attitude of simplicity we strive to keep ourselves focused on the essential core rather than getting lost in a clutter of distractions and embellishments. We listen for the same in the words of other people. Simplicity helps us to maintain clarity of mind and purpose.

“I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest treasures.”

~ Lao Tzu

Simplicity is believed to be the ability for one to express what is on his/ her mind in a plain and orderly manner. Most of us have the ability to explain ourselves in a clear and concise manner, but yet still, we still find ourselves have little problems in clearing our head in other to get a clear thought to be expressed in a way that it would be understood.

“In character, in manner, in style, in all things, the supreme excellence is simplicity.”

~ Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

I have learned to…

I’ve learned- that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned- that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I’ve learned- that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned- that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned- that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned- that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.

I’ve learned- that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned- that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.

I’ve learned- that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learned- that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned- that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned- that you can keep going long after you can’t.

I’ve learned- that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned- that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned- that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I’ve learned- that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned- that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I’ve learned- that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I’ve learned- that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned- that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned- that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned- that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned- that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned- that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I’ve learned- that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.

I’ve learned- that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned- that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned- that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned- that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.

I’ve learned- that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned- that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learned- that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learned- that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learned- that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I’ve learned- that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I’ve learned- that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I’ve learned- that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I’ve learned- that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.

I’ve learned- that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

By Omer B. Washington

A little Story on “Self-Confidence”

There was a business executive who was deep in debt and could see no way out.

Creditors were closing in on him. Suppliers were demanding payment. He sat on the park bench, head in hands, wondering if anything could save his company from bankruptcy.

Suddenly an old man appeared before him. “I can see that something is troubling you,” he said.

After listening to the executive’s woes, the old man said, “I believe I can help you.”

He asked the man his name, wrote out a check, and pushed it into his hand saying, “Take this money. Meet me here exactly one year from today, and you can pay me back at that time.”

Then he turned and disappeared as quickly as he had come.

The business executive saw in his hand a check for $500,000, signed by John D. Rockefeller, then one of the richest men in the world!

“I can erase my money worries in an instant!” he realized. But instead, the executive decided to put the uncashed check in his safe. Just knowing it was there might give him the strength to work out a way to save his business, he thought.

With renewed optimism, he negotiated better deals and extended terms of payment. He closed several big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and making money once again.

Exactly one year later, he returned to the park with the uncashed check. At the agreed-upon time, the old man appeared. But just as the executive was about to hand back the check and share his success story, a nurse came running up and grabbed the old man.

“I’m so glad I caught him!” she cried. “I hope he hasn’t been bothering you. He’s always escaping from the rest home and telling people he’s John D. Rockefeller.”

And she led the old man away by the arm.

The astonished executive just stood there, stunned. All year long he’d been wheeling and dealing, buying and selling, convinced he had half a million dollars behind him.

Suddenly, he realized that it wasn’t the money, real or imagined, that had turned his life around. It was his new found

self-confidence that gave him the power to achieve anything he went after.

"The Circle Of Dots of Life"

There is a circle called life. It is in the dots shaped circle and you need to connect those dots to complete the circle of life.

When to begin?

Where to behold?

Why to choose?

What to do?

How does it make sense?

In life, you have to help yourself because you are the only one who knows about you, there is nobody who comes and tells you

“Oh you are this and that kind of person, for you this is the best and the worst, this is your final destination, these are your goals, objectives and duties to peruse in your life, this is the only way for you, this is ultimate path to start your missions of life! Follow this and that etc”

Oh Come on buddies! Let’s make it easier now to find the right meaning of life. Everyone gave the meaning of life according to the some circumstances, situations and conditions but none has given the right meaning of life. Look, by reading this article you’ll realize the value of your life; apply this for your betterment of the future by fulfilling circle of dots. Those dots can be ups and downs of the life, can be happiness, sadness, unwanted and unexpected situations of life, and sudden feelings of angry, annoy, detestation and can be affected in your inner. Just go ahead, face those dots, complete your task in many ways, don’t look here and there, and don’t say what others people will say, what other people will think about you, just leave them. Go with yourself. Uplift yourself, create your own ideas collect them and choose one of the best and apply it.

“If a person comes and tells you Oh! You are not supposed to do this, if you do this, what will others think about you? That is the right time to count him the first with others.”

You are the one and only one person that can help you in your troubles, worries, and loneliness, solitude of nights and in every matter of life.

This person who is in you knows the reality/authenticity about you. So, many people you will meet in your life. Some will loves you, care you, detest you, hurt you even though some will try to push you backward in your life but no one will support you and tell you this is the truth of your life.

Someday, when you start thinking about yourself and everything seems to be critical, you will realize the importance of your life & yourself too. Someday, you’ll know what was in you when you had to do or make some positive choices for yourself. You’ll definitely feel the pain of life.

Just help yourself, free yourself, don’t let others overcome your thoughts, take good advises and put/apply them according to your own way. Believe in yourself. You are the only one supporter of your inner, be the original and favorite of you & make friendship with yourself, don’t dislike yourself you are very much beautiful as you are.

All is, the dots of circle which you need to complete. It’ll help in your aims of life, choices of your decision making, create the new ideas and plans! Struggle yourself you can be successful.

By believing in yourself you can achieve/acquire the right things in right ways in right time and in the right place.

Just go for the circle of dots and connect them in a very beautiful ways.

WORDS: “That Have The Power”

I GUESS AS A WRITER I care about words more than most and while it’s  natural that the new technology such as Facebook and Twitter and the by now almost universally used email encourages us ti use a bunch of words that are colorless and often cut to verbal ribbons-”How R U”,Luv U” or similar – it seems to be a process that is squeezing the life out of language.

I am aware that language is a constantly changing medium – new words and forms arrive, old ones die out. Like life, a great many common words have a brief lifespan before passing away. But English is a beautiful and expressive language that more than most languages can explain through idioms our society to ourselves.

Truncating words into small, common, lifeless little objects, meaningless phrases as if what we have to say and therefore we ourselves are unimportant and worthless seems to me to be a tragic transgression into nowhere. Someone once said we are known by the words we use.

Allow me to talk a little about words, those lovely, jumping, laughing, eager little marks we make on paper or tap onto a screen.

words gather around a proposition or an idea or story willingly. Some wag their tail, others stand back a little shy, but they’ve come to work, some shuffle as they stand in line, others stand to rigid attention while you can almost hear some of them tap dancing. But the big ones and the small ones, the extroverted words and the shy words all want to be part of the action, part of your narrative. They all want to get into the act, all are anxious to make your writing just the very best it can be.

If you love words they force you to use them intelligently, they don’t merely want to show off- in fact, they love working hard. Nothing echoes more loudly than a hallow word or lacks meaning as does a lazy one.

Some words run softly, on tippy-toe almost soundless others clump around as under -14 football team milling around on the cement floor of the dressing shed. Some soothe like cold cream on sunburn while other can set your blood pounding. Expletives are part of our language and they too can be used well or simply wasted, thrown together in a sentence to denote little but an inability to think or pause meaningfully in an attempt to find an appropriate adjective.

There are words so rounded at the edges and softened by wear that they are no longer words at all but sounds that people make for confusion, despair, joy or anger. There are words that randy (old-fashioned word) or sexy but not dirty or foul. And sacred words that have become expletives, there meanings soiled with improper unthinking and careless use.

Some words think like burrs and punish at a touch. They are words we never forget, insults, denigrating words that destroy our egos and sometimes even our lives. But then

“There are also words that nurse the egos and heals the heart.”

They are words joined together in common phrases we barely notice as we employ them in everyday use, yet if you pause a moment to think, they are so beautiful that they elevate the human race. For instance, here is a phrase so common we use it without moment’s through, it is a miracle of invention. How it ever came into being is marvel and mystery. Who was it to first use our language with such finesse? The phrase: “Beyond the shadow of doubt”. Just pause for a moment. Beyond meaning a way ahead, a shadow dark area covering light, a doubt, a hesitancy in belief.

How blithely wee employ this phrase, yet how exquisitely beautiful it is in its through and structure. Our language contains hundreds, perhaps thousands of similar miracle expressions that lead to deeper understanding or emphasis.

Through there are also phrases that clunk,or do for me. Here is one, “I mean this from the bottom of my heart.” In my mind’s eye I see a heart with large bottom and anything, even a sentiment, coming from it is not be trusted. Any person “Heart-bottoming” me is suspect.

There are also phrases that smack you in the mouth. “he was found stone cold dead.” Whack!

“There are some words that remain forever unspoken, clamped in a throat that aches to let them out…”

and often they are the most meaningful words of all.

Words are the most of what we have to solve about everything. The new social media is most powerful medium for words ever invented. It means you can possess an opinion that can reach around the words without the media and government putting a spin to it. Your opinion coupled with countless others can stop wars and destroy tyrants. Use it, if you choose the right word inequity and hardship even poverty can be solved forever.

The choice is ours, words spoken, on the screen, recorded, written, lyrics. If we use them well and care how we put them together, if we think before we open our mouth, tap the computer key and unclip a pen or compose a lyric or write a poem or even a note to the supermarket, we will do more than simply rescue language, we will begin to communicate meaningfully with each other as a collective force that can’t be stopped. When we talk with purpose and pleasure to each other in this marvelous language we have been given our birthright then anything is possible and most of it will be very good.

You are a person with a point of view that counts – use it!

Find the right words and change the world.

In The Honor Of “Women”

• ~ They smile when they want to scream.
• ~ They sing when they want to cry.
• ~ They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.
• ~ They fight for what they believe in.
• ~ They stand up for injustice.
• ~ They don’t take “no” for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.
• ~ They go without new shoes so their children can have them.
• ~ They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
• ~ They love unconditionally.
• ~ They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.
• ~ They are happy when they hear about a birth or a new marriage.
• ~ Their hearts break when a friend dies.
• ~ They have sorrow at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they      think there is no strength left.
• ~ They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart. Women come in all sizes, in all colors and shapes.
• ~ They’ll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you.
• ~ The heart of a woman is what makes the world spin!
• ~ Women do more than just give birth.
• ~ They bring joy and hope.
• ~ They give compassion and ideals.
• ~ They give moral support to their family and friends.
• ~ Women have a lot to say and a lot to give.!!! :)

Source: http://academictips.org/blogs/